I’ve
been a part of a lot of groups and the hardest was when I graduated from
College and no longer was undergrad so I was no longer allowed to be in my undergraduate
Sorority Chapter. To leave this girls was the hardest to me because we had a
bond, we had fallen outs, we handled business and we lived up to our motto “Service
to all mankind”. I was the president of this Chapter and I had to turn my position
over as I adjourned the group because my time had come to transition into the
Graduate world. When together, we communicated very well and were respectful to
watch other in all ways possible. Of course, every gathering wasn’t the
greatest because we were all women, but majority was the best. Being the leader
of my Sorority for that time really had a huge impact on my life and allowed me
to transform from conversing with the member in the Sorority (group). My mom
always said Adjourned means see you later because you will meet again. I was no
longer apart of the Undergraduate world but became familiar with the Graduate
world and begin seeing the ladies again.
what is it about goodbyes that are so hard? Especially those from places like school. I wonder if it is partly the anxiousness about change that maybe we are also fearful of.
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